How do you feel about virginity and the heterosexism to go with it? (PIV "counts", anal and oral don't, etc.) Do you believe in virginity? What does it signify to you?

I've always felt it's a personal thing and different for everyone as to what they consider "losing their virginity", especially since for many people if they were to simply count their first sexual contact it would mean having "given it" to an abuser.

Personally, I feel it's an emotional choice, not a physical one.

Have at it.